Thank you everyone for responding.
Marianne-
Thank you for the encouragement. I saw you’re from NJ under your post. Are you familiar with Englewood Medical Center in you guessed it Englewood NJ, a sister hospital of Mount Sinai? My Surgeon Michael Harris is there actually. I did extensive research on surgeons. I'm from the DC/Baltimore area and saw guys from the biggest badest hospitals around here (Johns Hopkins, University of Maryland Medical Center, Hospital Center in DC) he has been doing surgery for over 20 years specifically for IBD. Dr Harris has been involved in the IBD surgical program in NY since it started. Well, anyway I was just wondering if you’ve heard of him as all of the surgeons I spoke to down here have.
About the food, how long did you stay on clears after the surgery? Also, when introducing food what foods did you try first and did you find any that bothered you? Also you said you were back to your crazy life
. Do you have a demanding job that your J-pouch has interfered with? I'm a critical care nurse and want to go on to NP or CRNA School. The surgeon told me there isn’t any job or training I couldn’t do with the pouch, but I’m skeptical, maybe just fearful. Any advice in that regard?
chiromancer-
Thank you also for the post. I guess I could have worded the question as, Does anyone think it was worth getting the J-pouch vs keeping an illeostomy? How was your experience with a J-pouch chiromancer? I also appreciate your constructive criticism about statistics. I'm aware of some statistics related to this surgery and they are under 5% according to my research from UPtoDate a physician used research database. What I'm looking for is patient experience, as a nurse I highly value that.
stpaulmom-
Anti-Monkey Butt, that is funny. Thanks for the response. I appreciate your advise about butt wiping
Funny talking about it sometimes, huh. I'm always teasing my wife about poop. How many times a day do you go to the bathroom with your pouch stpaulmom?
ISeeUC-
Hello and thank you for responding. First, I'm very sorry to hear your difficulties with the pouch, its bad enough you have to suffer through UC, a first surgery, and now this. Well I pray God gives you strength to work through your suffering. It's funny you mentioned vanity. One of my hesitations is a question to myself regarding being vane. I'm an avid hiker and mountain biker, I enjoy swimming also. I feel it would be more enjoyable without having to worry about falling on my stomach, causing trauma to the ostomy and having to wear sport bands when exercising. I'm 31 and have been married 4 years. We have a 5 month old. We want more kids and even though my wife says she doesn’t mind the pouch when we are intimate I do. I know that’s pretty personal, but I feel that is what this site can be about, i.e., being open so you can find the right support. Like when you give a history to a doctor or nurse, if you leave out vital information, they cant help you as effectively. I really like your self analytical question 2 as I'm confident in my surgeon. He does 2-3 J-pouch constructions a week, has been for 20 years.
I value my quality of life immensely (its winter though so that’s off season) I have been working over 40hrs a week, sometimes 50 or more, playing with my beautiful little girl, enjoying my marriage and friends. I do however plan to go to grad school and train to be either a Nurse Anesthetist or a Family Nurse Practitioner and I’m concerned that getting the pouch may limit my stamina. I’ve have been what ifing myself. With the surgical method I had, I have a colon stump that would have to be removed with my rectum to avoid cancer risks anyway. So If I keep the ostomy, I would have to have that removed within the next couple of years and then I wouldn’t have the choice to try the pouch. With my career and present job, director, wife’s job, etc., its is a good time to do it. Thank you again for your post I really appreciate it.
TE Marie,
I appreciate your post and am sorry to hear you’re having problems still. Do you mind sharing more? The laperascopic method is not an option for me as in males the infection rate and leakage potential for pouches is greater. The pain is usually less, your correct on that. I had an open first step, but my incision is only a little over 3 inches. I like your go with your gut pun
thanks it made me smile.
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I’m glad to hear your doing better and for what you shared. That’s excitin