Hi friends,
I have indeterminate colitis for 1 year 4 months. I have picked up the indeterminate term from forums, the biopsies could not decide whether UC/CD, the GIs said it is most likely UC, some other times they said it is more likely to be CD. Anyway, I am having a major flare-up for some 4 months, this is not coming under control, the tests have also shown some 'irreversible' damages to my colon, doctors feel surgery even tho' not urgent, should be done sooner than later. Most likely I am getting it done within next 15 or max 20 days.
Problem is, they have explained j-pouch and permanent stoma, pros and cons to some extent, and asked ME to decide. After my last 10 days of net surfing I could not, so I seek your help. Permanent stoma bag is something that I believe I can handle, I have done similar before (I had a temporary colostomy bag because of an accident without issues long back), marriage and kids are over (I am 40, male to be more precise), I have a desk job, my office will take care of all ostomy expenditure - lol.
On the other side I hear 80% of the pouchers are doing great, with avg 6-8 motions and avg 1-2 pouchitis per year, so why to go for a permanent outside bag? If I turn out to be within the cursed 10% or so who have cuffities/cronic pouchities/pain etc., later on reversing is an option. I have 20 years of service left and I might be within the majority who like the pouch very much.
But, what if later it is found I have indeed CD? I read anxiety and problems faced by people who later found they actually had CD, in my case the GIs are already telling 50-50 between UC/CD. That makes me think of 70% for permanent stoma and 30% for a j-pouch.
What you would have decided in my condition? Any basic advantages/disadvages of stoma/j-pouch that I am missing? Please help with your advise.
I have indeterminate colitis for 1 year 4 months. I have picked up the indeterminate term from forums, the biopsies could not decide whether UC/CD, the GIs said it is most likely UC, some other times they said it is more likely to be CD. Anyway, I am having a major flare-up for some 4 months, this is not coming under control, the tests have also shown some 'irreversible' damages to my colon, doctors feel surgery even tho' not urgent, should be done sooner than later. Most likely I am getting it done within next 15 or max 20 days.
Problem is, they have explained j-pouch and permanent stoma, pros and cons to some extent, and asked ME to decide. After my last 10 days of net surfing I could not, so I seek your help. Permanent stoma bag is something that I believe I can handle, I have done similar before (I had a temporary colostomy bag because of an accident without issues long back), marriage and kids are over (I am 40, male to be more precise), I have a desk job, my office will take care of all ostomy expenditure - lol.
On the other side I hear 80% of the pouchers are doing great, with avg 6-8 motions and avg 1-2 pouchitis per year, so why to go for a permanent outside bag? If I turn out to be within the cursed 10% or so who have cuffities/cronic pouchities/pain etc., later on reversing is an option. I have 20 years of service left and I might be within the majority who like the pouch very much.
But, what if later it is found I have indeed CD? I read anxiety and problems faced by people who later found they actually had CD, in my case the GIs are already telling 50-50 between UC/CD. That makes me think of 70% for permanent stoma and 30% for a j-pouch.
What you would have decided in my condition? Any basic advantages/disadvages of stoma/j-pouch that I am missing? Please help with your advise.