In order to have a j pouch, it is necessary to have a functional anal sphincter, which is usually removed when a BCIR is performed. Without a sphincter, your options are limited to a kock pouch or another BCIR. You definitely should get a top rated surgeon for either of these procedures, but keep in mind that there are no guarantees regarding possible complications. After I was advised by my GI and a well-rated surgeon at Mayo to have my j pouch removed (for presence of high grade dysplasia), I was turned down for a continent ileostomy by three surgeons, but fortunately was accepted by Dr. Ernest Rehnke in Florida for a BCIR. The surgery went very well and I have a very good quality of life. I have always been personally against having an ileostomy for the various issues involved. Incidentally, what complications prevented your BCIR from being successful?