I guys, ive been posting the same sort of topic for a while now, ive been having so many appointments and so many specialists throwing so much info my way that this is the only place that feels safe to come to...the story so far is so...i was diagnosed with uc at 19, and my first child at 25 closely followed by an emergency operation to remove the whole large intestine because of a flare that didnt calm down. At the time of delivery i was told i had a 2nd degree tear and it was sutured up and left and no more was said about it.
I had my 2nd child at 27 (im now 28) and he was delivered by c-section on my consultants say so as to avoid any tearing to the back passage...after this and up until now i have had and still have the ileostomy. I wanted to have this reversed and saw a surgeon at st marks hospital in harrow, england, today, he told me that i have damage to the sphincter due to childbirth and the j pouch as the situation currently stands with the muscles would be a very bad idea due to the incontinence, he said the damage was due to the tear at childbirth...so basically i just had a few questions...
1. Has anyone had any similar experiences and what was the outcome?
2. Did anyone have a tear during childbirth but has gone on to have the j pouch created, if so, how is it now?
3. Is there anything i can do to help my situation? as i really dont want to keep the ileostomy permanently
4. Has anyone had surgery to fix the anal sphincter and then gone on to have the j pouch created? and how is it now?
5. And any info or help anyone can give me would be appreciated so very much, thank you x
I had my 2nd child at 27 (im now 28) and he was delivered by c-section on my consultants say so as to avoid any tearing to the back passage...after this and up until now i have had and still have the ileostomy. I wanted to have this reversed and saw a surgeon at st marks hospital in harrow, england, today, he told me that i have damage to the sphincter due to childbirth and the j pouch as the situation currently stands with the muscles would be a very bad idea due to the incontinence, he said the damage was due to the tear at childbirth...so basically i just had a few questions...
1. Has anyone had any similar experiences and what was the outcome?
2. Did anyone have a tear during childbirth but has gone on to have the j pouch created, if so, how is it now?
3. Is there anything i can do to help my situation? as i really dont want to keep the ileostomy permanently
4. Has anyone had surgery to fix the anal sphincter and then gone on to have the j pouch created? and how is it now?
5. And any info or help anyone can give me would be appreciated so very much, thank you x