Hey its tough but I've always thought it best to never try. I'm so pleased to have been able to have the surgery for my J Pouch and would never want to have to give it up for an outside pouch! maybe think of that?
My issue is my laparotomy scar from the operation as it was infected when I had surgery and is really obvious 3 years later

i'm very conscious of what other guys think when they see me naked.