After the illness and surgery etc (diagnosis and surg all within 4 months for UC) I had a re-think of my life and what I really wanted and jumped from the straight bus and hopped onto the other did anyone else face upto any seuality issues due to surgery/ilness etc?

I believe living with a pouch creates all kinds of sexuality issues. As much as I like sex, it frustrates me too being stuck with my pouch. Starving myself is usually the only way I feel comfortable when it comes to the whole act of sex in a twosome that is

Wow! Fredbird sneaked in hoping no one would notice during Thanksgiving celebrations.

Torie - please don't pay any attention to him (Miserable Bastard = Fredbird).

Send a PM to Eric (do a search on Eric - he lives in Toronto) - I'm sure he'll be more than happy to give you tons of information.

kathy

What I said here was 100% relevant. It really sucks that trolls such as yourself have to screw up this thread.