Ok so I will admit it...I am finally ready to get my groove back! Lol I am just wondering what y'all do to cover the pouch! Have visited many sites for supposed pretty or sexy things but I felt they were either ugly, expensive or geared towards an older crowd. I do not see myself wearing a long lace gown at 37! I am not Blance on Golden Girls! Although with that comment I may have dated myself! Help!!!

I wore a tank top or a tube top over it...and turned on the music, no silence. My husband was awesome and just ignored it. I on the other hand had to have music because just at the right moment it would make a loud noise and I would loose my train of thought. They have these things called "hip T's" look it up online www.myhip-t.com and I ordered some of those to go over it...kinda like a tube top in a way

Try for some very pretty silk or cotton scarves knotted around the hips and over the pouch..works just as well as all of the fancy, expensive stuff sold on the market but you can pick and choose whatever colour, size, design that you like...also, you can cut up an old (or new) t-shirt...Just cut off the lower 10 inches (makes a wide tube) and then pull it up like a skirt and over the bag...then knot it or use a ribbon or rubber band to pull a knot tight.
(here they use them to 'dress up' pregnant bellys!
Sharon

My husband was so just excited for me 'get my groove' back, he overlooked the bag. It had been really long,dry spell with pregnancy, post-partum, UC... I just made sure to empty before we got started.

He joked that's why the lights were off.

Good for you...yup, generally we are so much more uptight about our bodies than they are...if given the choice, they would happily take a one-eyed-one-legged-one-armed-one-breasted female over no sex at all...so if the only strike against us is a little bag and a couple of scars...Well, full steam ahead!
I have vague memories of the first time that hubby saw me hooked up to a legbag and tube...it took him very little time to get passed my 'accessories' and look forward towards my other more endearing qualities
He has a harder time dealing with my grey hair and 'muffin tops' than he does with my stoma and scars. (He says that I can't help the stoma but I can do something about the love handles and hair!)
Sharon